There is a division in our churches. It has nothing to do with race, gender, sexuality, or politics. It is loosely based on age, but specifically has to do with attitudes toward worship. I call it the Line of Obligation.
Above this line, people feel a sense of duty or obligation to go to church on Sunday morning. They might find worship fulfilling, but what gets them out of bed consistently is this feeling of "I ought to be there."
Below this line, the sense of obligation is gone. Church, if it is even considered, is just one of many possibilities for a Sunday morning. Those below the line who do attend regularly do so because of particularly strong faith or to enjoy the feeling of community. "I ought to be there" carries little or no influence.
As time goes by, the Line of Obligation creeps higher, and less people in our communities wake up on Sunday morning feeling the "ought to" feeling. Nonetheless, many churches continue to rely on the sense of obligation to get people there.
As a result, churches are not only struggling to attract unchurched young people, but are also seeing many of those who do come slipping in their regularity. The answer is not to try to attract them back with consumeristic methods, but instead is to be realistic about what the end of the "ought to" age means.
It means that we must do a lot more than try to convince young folks that they "ought to" come to church - and perhaps that we should stop considering attendance at worship the scorecard of faith.
We have to find ways to nurture deep and abiding faith, and tight community to go with it - in ways that might go well beyond what church going meant in the "ought to" era. And when we do this, we will find a whole new way of living the faith opening up below this Line of Obligation.
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I didn't grow up in a "church" family where Sunday morning attendance was the thing to do. It carried no sense of "ought" for us. (I am 62 years old now.) But I became a minister anyway (currently unemployed). God did make me do it, but my mentor (this was about 1980 on the south coast of Oregon, and he was about 60 at the time) told me that, "It's a miracle that anyone goes to church." He meant it was the grace and power of God, through the Holy Spirit, working in that person's life and through the church. I was just interviewed by a prospective church (meaning it is possible that they may call me to be their pastor) and I told them about this. I think they understood, and they are an "older" congregation that wants to grow and are possibly willing to look beyond the sense of obligation. We'll see how it turns out.
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